Ex-military person's transition into civilian life's struggle and success

In the heart of San Diego, two former soldiers found solace and support in each other, transforming their bond from military camaraderie to a profound friendship that helped them navigate the challenges of civilian life.

Marcus Priolo and Al Lejarde, both veterans, had a difficult time adjusting to life outside the military. Priolo, who was born to a heroin addict mother and grew up in group homes, foster homes, and juvenile hall, felt particularly alone during his transition. Lejarde, who finished his service in 2009, also struggled, seeking guidance from Priolo during his own struggles.

Their paths crossed at a rehabilitation centre in San Diego, specifically designed for veterans, where Priolo was receiving substance abuse treatment. It was here that Lejarde, then an intern volunteer, first visited Priolo in a detention facility. Their conversation gave Priolo a spark of hope, marking the beginning of a beautiful friendship.

Lejarde, who became a father for the first time, looked up to Priolo as a role model. As they spent more time together, they began to volunteer with other service members, offering the same support and understanding that they had found in each other.

Their friendship has been a beacon of hope for both men. Priolo, who joined the military for the camaraderie, found it again in Lejarde during his darkest times. Despite his own struggles, Lejarde never wavered in his support for Priolo, even helping him during a difficult time following a car accident under the influence of drugs.

The conversation between these two veterans was recorded by StoryCorps in 2019 in San Diego, a testament to their enduring friendship and the power of support in overcoming adversity.

Despite extensive searches, no information has been found in the public domain identifying which organisation in San Diego supported Al Lejarde and Marcus Priolo in their search for help and stability after their military service. Regardless, their story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of friendship and support in times of need.

Today, Priolo and Lejarde continue to spend time together, not just as veterans, but as friends and role models for each other's families. Their bond is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the power of friendship in overcoming adversity.