Date Leaves Woman Feeling Offended Following Request for Split of Shared Fries Via Venmo

In the world of dating, navigating financial expectations can be tricky. A 28-year-old woman recently found herself in a peculiar situation when a man she went on a date with requested $3.25 via Venmo for "half the fries" they shared during their meal.

The incident has sparked a lively discussion on the r/AmIOverreacting forum, with commenters confirming that the man's behavior was indeed strange. The woman, who offered to cover the tip since he paid for the meal, felt turned off and insulted by the request.

According to dating experts, the man should have paid for the first date. Erika Ettin, an online dating coach, recommends her male clients pay and her female clients offer. A good rule of thumb is to discuss the date and the bill beforehand to avoid any misunderstandings.

Interestingly, this isn't an isolated incident. Another woman was iced out by her co-workers after refusing to split a $400 dinner bill equally. These incidents highlight the importance of fairness and clear communication in financial matters, especially in the early stages of a relationship.

One user on the forum advised that the man's request for such a minimal amount of money was tacky because it could guarantee no future date. They argued that if the man could only afford ice cream, he shouldn't have promised burgers and fries.

However, the woman's friends were split on whether she was being petty or if it was a red flag. Seventy-two percent of Americans agree that the man should pay for the first date for a heterosexual couple, according to a survey from The Harris Poll.

Despite the debate, it's considered tacky for a man to ask for money after he already said he would pay for the meal. The woman declined the Venmo request and texted him that it was petty, to which he responded saying she was overreacting, that "it's about fairness" and "that's just how he is."

As the conversation continues, it's clear that understanding and respecting each other's financial boundaries is crucial in building a strong and healthy relationship.

Date Leaves Woman Feeling Offended Following Request for Split of Shared Fries Via Venmo